[Praising well and positive childcare] I wish for the healthy growth of the children in Izumi Ward

While raising children is fun, you can face your child every day without a break, and feel stressed and frustrated in a series of things that do not go as scheduled. . Isn't it "what going" when I get frustrated? However, even if a parent's emotions are hit straight and scolded, the child's change is temporary, and the essence is "Why was it beaten?" I'm confused even if I don't understand what you have done?" I would like people who say, "I don't want to be, but I don't know what to do," to know how to tell them, don't want to be afraid of parent-child relationships, and use them as a reference for positive child-rearing.

Last Updated June 1, 2022

１．Effects obtained in ways that protect the safety and security of children

Positive child care is a way in which children respect the right to grow up healthy, the right to be protected from violence and self-esteem, and the child can be nurtured physically and mentally. It is necessary for all adults involved in children to be aware of the responsibility to create such a society.

Let's nurture the ability of children to live with good praise! （PDF：317KB）

２．Points to be well praised

You may be confused, such as not knowing what to do even if you praise and raise it, or if you praise it, you may not listen to what you say on the diagram. Here are 4 points that can be praised well.

Points to be well praised (PDF: 437KB)

３．Response when a child takes unfavorable actions

How do I face my child when I want to practice child care that I can't help?

Tips for responding when children take unfavorable actions (PDF: 294KB)

４．Frequently troubled behavior of children! What do you do in such a case?

Here are some examples that are good at complimenting each of the five troubled situations.

Case１： Throw food during the meal! I throw a spoon or fork! （PDF：305KB）

Case２： Do not clear picture books and toys (PDF: 314KB)

Case３： If you don't like anything on the go, you'll lie down and ramp up ... (PDF: 305KB)

Case４： "No, no, no," I'm sick ... (PDF: 306KB)

Case５： I don't try to return home from the park (PDF: 311KB)

５．Knowing the characteristics of children "growth stage"

It is important to know the child's growth and development stage when thinking about the child's "why that happens". How do children feel according to age and development? Are you thinking about it? Let's understand and face each other that it is a necessary process for growth.

Knowing the characteristics of children "growth stage" (PDF: 287KB)

６．If you are in trouble, don't worry alone, please consult!

There are many difficulties in raising children with mom dads alone.
There are many places in the community where you can consult. Can I talk about this? I don't think it's okay. Let's think about the problem together!

Children and Families Support Division Child-rearing Support Section

Professionals such as public health nurses and midwives receive consultation on child care from infancy to schoolchild and adolescents.
Reception hours: Monday to Friday, 8:45 to 17:00
Phone number: ０４５－８００－２４６５

Nursery schools and kindergartens

Local support information at nursery schools and kindergartens (outside site)

Information such as child care support and garden opening performed in nursery schools and kindergartens is posted.
You can also consult with childcare, so please come and visit us.

List of nursery schools and childcare facilities

List of facilities such as nursery schools and kindergartens in Izumi Ward.

Child-rearing supporters

Once a week, at eight facilities in Izumi Ward, experienced child-rearing supporters support their child-raising activities as local consultants. We also provide advice on children's play and consultation on child care. You can play freely in the square.

Yokohama child care partner (outside site)

At the Izumi Ward Regional Child Care Support Center "Skippu", we will provide the perfect information for those who are pregnant or have pre-school children to consult with their child care partners and help them move forward. First of all, please contact us if you have any questions.

Child care support supporters

It is a listening volunteer who consults and listens and snuggles up at local child care salons.
Supporters are working with green bandanas as a landmark.

References

・"Child care that doesn't become emotional" Author: Tokiko Koso
・Training for supporters in Izumi Ward by Tsuneko Takaso (R3.10.26)
　"I can't beat it! I can't do it! Excerpt from the contents of the lecture "Promotion of Positive Child Care"

Cooperation

Tsuneko Takaso (authorized NPO Child Abuse Prevention National Network Director)

Reference

Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare HP for child-rearing that does not depend on corporal punishment-To a society that supports child-rearing together-(outside site)

In addition, please refer to the website of the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare.

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